Like really ready?
Well with some things like athletic achievements (which I
know exactly nothing about) you would train, increase your speed, or
weights, or times or other sportsy measurements and then you’d know exactly
when you were ready for the next step.
Or say you have a job. You perform over and above the expectation of the job, you’d take all training that was offered, and probably volunteer for extra projects. Eventually, you’d spot the next rung on the ladder and go after a promotion or a better job because you have increased your skills—both business and the “people” kind and you would, for the most part, know you were ready.
In each of those scenarios there are obvious markers, guideposts,
or someone saying, “Yes, you’re ready to move on”.
But what if you’re on your own; forging the path of bringing
your creative ideas and amazing self to the world, how do you know if you’re
Well, guess what?
You just have to be ready enough.
You already know that stepping out of your comfort zone is hard. Not like, “Oh, I have to speak to the Joint Session of the UN with 10 minutes notice” hard. More like, “He-e-e-y? I’m been working on this idea for a while and I’d really like you to see it” hard.
And here’s a little secret: you don’t have to be ready for everything that could happen as a result of you moving forward, because frankly, you can’t be.
It’s impossible to know all that.
But you’ve done hard stuff before so you know that with any
move you will have some discomfort. And discomfort isn’t so bad. I mean, you go
to the dentist occasionally, right? You use self-check-out scanners at the supermarket
from time to time*. These things aren’t fun, but you have proved over and over
in your life that you can do the uncomfortable, the awkward, and the “deep breaths,
we’re almost through here” moments and come out better for it on the other
I actually think you are readier than you think you are. And
so do the people around you**. I mean, haven’t you been dreaming about and reading
about and talking about this thing for like, years already?
So yeah, you’re ready enough.
And you know it.
*actually the invention of the devil
**Trust me, I talked to all of them and they said you are more than ready for this thing.
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